Tuesday, December 30, 2008

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Report for why men feel bored when shopping with a woman?





Shopping is the activity of selection and also purchasing. It can be related to a leisure activity which is buying branded product and also the things which is not necessary like clothes , accessories for hair , makeup etc. As well as an economic one which is product that is necessary for us like food, water etc. So, for woman shopping is something that can make them feel satisfy on what they have purchase and at the same they there are enjoying the process of shopping as they can explore and see so many latest information and gain their information from shopping .Woman will explore the whole shop, choose and compare the price carefully before they decide to purchase it. But for men, is different with woman. Shopping for them is something that is wasting time and also money. If they want to buy something, they will go to the shop and buy which is no relate to the process of bargain, or comparing the price of the product.


On the above we have explain what is the definition of shopping and also the view of woman and man about shopping. So back to the question that we had, after doing some research we find out the reason why men feel bored when shopping with a woman .Here are the reasons that we have figure out why men feel bored. According to the information we get from the internet. The shopping test result show that more than 50 % guy was dislike accompany women to shopping. Most of the reason is the women have no idea to manage their timing during shopping and for my own experience, I still remember that I’ve accompany my ex girl friend to Time Square for select the present for my parent. We have spent the whole day for choosing the only one present. Actually I feel very tired on walking the whole day in the shopping mall without any rest for that. And for girls they will lose their mind when see the sale sign show out from the shop. They will just nonstop on trying out the clothes and at this time what else should a guy do? They can only stay outside the fitting room and wait them to satisfy on trying every outfit that they like. Even though the clothes are not suitable to them and guys still have to lie to them. It is to take care of the feelings of a woman and do not want to hurt them and make them unhappy. The different between men and a woman are man pretty good in figure out where and what they want to get. If they need a pair of jeans they will go to the specified department to grab one and pay.
Another reason is the shopping desire of a woman make men feel bored about it. Woman hopes to get more time and also money to satisfy their desire. Like the statement that one of our group member had mention is woman have no idea to manage their timing during shopping. They have waste a lot of time on just seeing and comparing the prices and it could be end up on buying nothing. For the money is, woman needs more money to buy more things especially those cute and sweet things that are not necessary. Guys also prefer to use their leisure time to hang out with their friends, stay at home and read their books or doing something that they are interested in.
After we have mention about time, shopping desire, and also tiredness can make a men feel bored, there are still have others things which are woman shop like Santa, man feel like Scrooge. According the “Men buy, Women Shop”, that’s make a men become a scrooge during the payment. Women always shop like a Santa; they always buy stuff without seeing the pricing. They always lose their mind when seeing the words of “SALES”. There have much kind of sales in Malaysia such as X’mas sales, Mega sales, Merdeka sales and so on. Besides that, the words of “DISCOUNT” are one of the favorite for a woman. They will use the discount coupon, discount of credit card rebate, and discount during J card day/Isetan day, and etc. In the end, men have to pay for their woman. It’ll make the phobia for a man through shopping. Besides that, men will feel embarrassed when shopping with woman especially when they went into those shop are having less male shopper insider something like Woman Lingerie Shop that can make them feel embarrassed .
Other than that, men buy, woman shop also is another reason that make a men feel bored. Women shop reluctantly, cautiously, infrequently and alone. Ever the hunter-gatherers, women view shopping expeditions as precision-targeted surgical strikes. As for fashion, men prefer “style”. Men judge clothes not just on their look or feel, but on their robustness. That’s why many of gentles are boring when they got to shopping with a woman. Women are happy to meander through sprawling clothing and accessory collections or detour through the shoe department. They like to glide up glass escalators past a grand piano, or spray a perfume sample on themselves on their way to, maybe, making a purchase. For men, shopping is a mission. They are out to buy a targeted item and flee the store as quickly as possible. Last and not the least is about the family. When those married couple go out for shopping they will sure bring their children along with them. From the above we also know that when a woman are crazy shopping they will forgot and didn’t take care the children and men will have to take this jobs to take care of the children. As we also know that men hates to do it because sometimes they do not know how to please the children whenever they are crying.
In conclusion, here are the reasons that why man feels bored when shopping with a woman .All this statement is through the research that we have found from the internet. We even got interview and ask about some of our friends on what they think about why a man will feeling bored when shopping with a woman.

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